Learning to Deal With People

People come in all shapes and sizes.  People believe many different ways.  People say things that hurt others.  People say things that make others feel good, bad, happy, sad.

When you are facing infertility, it seems often things that are said make you sad.  People ask you when you are going to have children, or why haven’t you had children?

If I could give women one thing, besides conceiving I would give them the ability to just anwser the questions without letting them get to you.  This can be one of the many challenges women who have be unable to conceive face.

Did you know that stistic wise women who are around other pregnant women often become pregnant?  Just you know that keeping a good atittude, without stress helps you to become pregnant.

When you are able to conceive would you like people to be happy for you.

Understanding that things happen for a reason is very important.  Understanding that the women doing the talking are just as excited as you will be when you conceive.  In fact — understanding how difficult to find the right thing to say to women who are facing infertility are sometimes difficult.

Maybe this is all part of the “joke.”  Are better said maybe this is all part of the lesson you are suppose to be learning.  Maybe once you understand are to handle the talk, you will be ready to conceive.

What I do know is when our bodies are out of stress, happy, healthy conceiving is much easier.

It is ok to tell others, we have been working on children and hope to have good news soon.  It is ok to say that is a touchy subject at this time.  It is ok to say, I will be ready to talk about this someday.

But, the important thing to remember is that things happen for a reason.  Relax, enjoy, and spend time around young children and babies.  Who know maybe you will find the peace you are looking for.